Once in Vietnam, less-than-equal pay and little personal time outside of work were not the only issues females in Vietnam faced that left them unprepared for a new and prosperous profession. The situation started with the women's work duty assignments. Those in charge generally gave the women deemed most attractive jobs in front offices, regardless of skills or previous experience. Irrespective of their assignments, females in Vietnam severely lacked adequate training before travelling to their new temporary homes. The Vietnam War experienced both medical personnel shortages, as well as more wounded than the hospitals could handle. Due to the lack of staff and the overwhelming number of patients, inexperienced nurses were in-charge of medical procedures that a doctor or surgeon would handle in the States. Other women were upset at the lack of training for Vietnam they received in preparation for deployment, which did not leave them feeling prepared to succeed. Lack of preparation put women at a disadvantage, not knowing how to properly protect themselves and having to rely on trained men to be able to save them. This contributed to the stereotype that women did not belong in Vietnam or could not handle the same jobs as men, when the military set them up for failure without the same tools given to them as their male counterparts.
Though the military geared recruitment materials towards highlighting the advantages women of the 1960s sought, they often missed the mark on exactly what women desired, especially on why women were willing to go to Vietnam. There were an abundance of reasons women gave about why they decided to go to Vietnam. For some, it was a way to avoid the typical paths given to women: limited job options, marriage, and children. Others reported feeling guilty that only men were in the draft, and they wanted to participate and be near the fighting, too. Due to the sizable anti-war sentiment in the U.S., and the debates over being in Vietnam, some women even went to try to find out for themselves what was going on and how they felt about it. Of course, some women wanted things listed in the recruitment ads such as equality, better pay, more jobs, and to travel.
Still, a multitude of recruitment materials assumed that the easiest way to encourage women to go to Vietnam was by emphasising that they could find men to date and, eventually, marry. Sprawling headlines enticing women to go where the men were made it seem like Vietnam would be more like a romantic spring break than an actual war zone. Multiple materials gave women the utmost assurance that the men in the dating pool in Vietnam were the finest young men, being selected by Uncle Sam, implying that the government screened the men to be the most eligible bachelors. The military assumed men would be the most significant selling point to potential women.
Despite being incorrect about most women wanting to go to Vietnam to find men, the military could not even hold up that promise. These men did not treat the women who came to Vietnam with the highest esteem and were not the best dating or husband material. Many of the men there actually thought that no respectable woman would come to Vietnam, so they assumed the women would all have sex for money, which they asked them to do. When men were not asking women for sex, some were spying on them during the most private and intimate moments. The showers in many female quarters did not have roofs when the recruits arrived, so men flew helicopters directly overhead to watch the women bathe. Women reported being unable to walk anywhere without male military members whistling, calling, or leering at them. When they ignored the advances of the men, they spread rumours that the woman was a lesbian, which was still a dangerous title in the 1960s. Female veterans have accused the Army and other military branches of not punishing sexual harassment, blaming women, and even transferring men accused of sexual crimes.
Even when dating did go well for women in Vietnam, they were not given the same freedom as their male counterparts, nor the ability to date without worries that the recruitment brochures would have led them to believe they would experience. The military held women solely responsible for pregnancy and discharged these women upon discovery of a pregnancy. Yet, despite a shortage of women in Vietnam, they were offered minimal means to prevent the pregnancies that would send them home. They could go to a military store to buy condoms, but only if they had the time and means to get there. Birth control pills were not readily accessible and officials did not stock them in military hospitals in Vietnam. Discharging women for becoming pregnant was not simply because women needed to be with their babies and not at work, as records show there were women released from duty for getting pregnant, even if they put the baby up for adoption.
Throughout the language in the recruitment initiatives, it is evident that the authors did not take women seriously as legitimate recruits for the Vietnam War. The military materials constantly referred to women by describing their looks, calling the right candidate an ‘attractive girl,’ instead of mentioning any qualities that would help her succeed at her job. One recruitment ad, written in the form of a fictional woman deciding to join the Army, said that girls just sat around and talked about ‘dresses, jobs, [and] boys.’ It also described the female recruitment officer not by her merits, but as ‘trim and feminine in her attractive green uniform, [with] friendly brown eyes that showed quick sympathy.’ The uniforms were described as, ‘military flair with a feminine touch,’ with pages that looked more like a fashion magazine showing the year's new styles than recruitment to go to the Vietnam War, advertising a ‘pale-leaf warm weather uniform’ for ‘summer living.’ The military's attempt at showing they welcomed women included information on ‘feminine food’ being added to the dining halls, such as, ‘low-calorie vegetables, salads, and fruits.’ On top of the condescending language, the military did not keep official records on the number of women who served in Vietnam. The lack of documentation showed a little care toward their service. The low opinion of women serving contributed to the military's promises failing to give women true freedom.
The military was desperate for women to join their ranks in the 1960s, especially to have them volunteer to go to Vietnam. They used many tactics to achieve this goal, but a significant source was manipulating the desires of the women's movement to promise new freedoms that only the military could grant. The women of Vietnam held the hands of dying men, clotted bleeding arteries, and held back tears as they packed belongings to go back home – without their owner. Each woman in Vietnam was there of her own choice and decision to volunteer, yet the military erased the dream of the life of military women, a dream they helped to draw and create in the minds of their recruits.